Ms. Details Okay guys… you gotta help me out here… We’ve all heard the saying “having your cake and eating it too”, but I mean come on enough is enough… what in the hell do you really want from us and whatcha lookin for…

I’m back on the dating scene (that’s right guys I’m single… holla at ya girl! LOL) and I find it a little crazy out here cause dudes really be on some other shit nowadays… There are so many women out here and yeah you can have your pick and sleep with whoever you want, but at the end of the day is the goal to “fuck every girl in the world” like Lil Wayne or are you looking to be with someone with some substance and character… I don’t know about the rest of the ladies out here, but I wanna know… Do Tell… Keep it 100 in the process… #ImJustSayin … Let’s go!

*disclaimer: same rules apply, this is my opinion and/or question… leave a comment with yours and let’s discuss
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6 thoughts on “What do men really want…

  1. This depends on where a man is in life. Most men are looking for a woman who can be like a best friend; meaning, he can talk to her like he’s talking to the fellas, and no matter what, she’s confident enough not to trip.
    Men got a habit of not keeping it real and just saying, “I ain’t ready for a woman right now… I want to fuck you!” They do this because they think if they tell the truth, they won’t get to touch that twot. However, women got it bad with making things out to be more than what they are. If he’s slept at your house for consecutive days, bought your dinner, or stop using condoms, or even said, “he cares about you”; that does NOT make it a relationship. If there is going to be a RELATIONSHIP, then it should be verbally expressed so that BOTH people are on the same page. ONLY THEN, can you men turn into stalkers and women slice tires! I’m out!

  2. Ms Details
    I say refer to http://www.jujumama.net/
    And check out her views on relationships and men
    and then consider dating outside the box.

    We put so many limitations on ourselves and others,
    we live in this box of supposed to’s
    Love is supposed to look like this, supposed to feel like that, he is supposed to be faith full… How about we are supposed to share our love.. How about we are not supposed to be with just one person forever
    for love is a universal thing thats is always evolving ever growing , why should a man or woman for that matter be limited to sharing his or her love with only one person..
    Is everything really about sex?? Are all men just whores sticking there tools in every hole they can ??? I think not all… I think some are searching for something and believe they can find it thru SEX…
    At any rate I am getting to deep. CHECK JUJU MAMMA and we can build on this topic further.
    Peace,
    Kyss Speaks Truth

  3. What do they really want and do they really know? I want to know the answer to that too. You hear men complaining all the time especially the one’s who have a woman about she doesn’t do this and she doesn’t do that…..then why are you still with her. Then when they get somebody who is cool, who doesn’t trip and enjoys pleasing them they revert back to the same wack one that they are complaining about. So either make moves and be happy or stop complaining. I think loneliness causes bad and rushed relationships, fear keeps you from getting what you really want. Life is too short to be stuck with a man or a woman who you don’t really want. Women let you know what they want, expect, and are looking for maybe men need to adopt that same method and be upfront.

  4. What do they really want and do they really know? I want to know the answer to that too. You hear men complaining all the time especially the one’s who have a woman about she doesn’t do this and she doesn’t do that…..then why are you still with her. Then when they get somebody who is cool, who doesn’t trip and enjoys pleasing them they revert back to the same one that they are complaining about. So either make moves and be happy or stop complaining. I think loneliness causes bad and rushed relationships, fear keeps you from getting what you really want. Life is too short to be stuck with a man or a woman who you don’t really want. Women let you know what they want, expect, and are looking for maybe men need to adopt that same method and be upfront.

  5. We want a mutually trustworthy relationship that embraces honesty and integrity. We welcome intelligent women who are strong and capable of holding their own be it spiritually, intellectually, sexually, and all else that serves to promote the well being of one’s self. We love to be leaders and have faith when we know you are leading us. We had confidence in our mother’s, grandmother’s, aunts, older sisters and the women within our community as we transformed from boys to men. Their guidance steered us in the right direction — For they were compliments to our fathers and we are a reflection of the men that raised us.
    We want to be a compliment to you and you a compliment to us. We don’t want to fight or argue – instead discuss the options that provide a decision for the betterment for you and I. We are not little boys discussing our latest and greatest conquest’s. We are men who open doors for you and hold them so that you can walk thru. We wait for you to get on and off the elevators first and we open/close the car doors for you tool.
    We love to be a provider and welcome help when it is available. We love to be well groomed, best dressed with shoes that shine. We want encouragement and compliments from you when you see us at our best. We will do the same for you with a smile and respectful words beyond four letters with the intention of a compliment. We want to be happy just like you and don’t mind if you show us that too.

  6. GOOD QUESTION!…But I think that you already knew the answer long before you asked, “What Do Men Really Want?”. Come On Now. The fact is, we are very simple and easy to figure out. Just ask any old married woman. Hell, you can ask any old married man and he will tell you the same thing. The problem is that this generation of women (and men) don’t know how to play by The Rules. Maybe it’s because everybody has too many issues and no guidence. But no matter what you practice or believe, Karma is real and she will come back on your ass if you don’t play this game (Life) by the rules. These rules are the Righteous Laws that govern this whole universe. So, THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS SIMPLE. All We Want Is You.

    But you already knew all of this in the first place, right?

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